First Timer’s Guide to Using a Prostate Stimulator

So you’ve decided that you wanted to try prostate massage. You went out and bought a prostate stimulator at a sex toy store or ordered one online. You’ve taken it out of its box and took a good look at it… and now maybe you’re having second thoughts. There’s no denying it – using a prostate massager for the first time can be very intimidating. This is especially true if you’ve never experienced any kind of anal penetration before. In truth, even most guys who have done some anal play have only ever had a finger up there, and a prostate toy is a fair bit bigger. The very thought can be a bit much for some guys.

The good news is that there’s really nothing to worry about when it comes to using a prostate massager. Most prostate toys are designed for comfort, and while they might look big, they’re actually quite comfortable to use. Choosing the right prostate toy for you is a topic for another article. However, if you’ve already found a good toy and are ready to use it, then read on!

There are a few important preparations and tips to keep in mind if you want to really enjoy your first experience using a prostate massage toy. Let’s start by talking about hygiene. If you aren’t experienced with any kind of anal play, pay close attention.

A lot of people get worried about anal penetration because they think it’s always going to be “dirty” and not in the good way. However, if you practice proper hygiene techniques, then anal play is totally clean and safe. This may sound like the opposite of what you’d think, but it’s actually recommended that you evacuate your bowels before performing any kind of anal play. You should take a shower or bath afterward and be sure to clean down there thoroughly– this ensures that you are as clean as possible and ready for insertion.

Once you’re thoroughly cleaned and ready, make sure you have everything you need on hand. This includes your prostate stimulator toy, some lube, and a comfortable place to lie down. It’s impossible to overemphasize the importance of lubricant when it comes to anal play, so make sure that you use enough!

The comfort aspect is also important. The anus and the prostate are sensitive, so you want to find a position where the prostate massage toy will rest comfortably inside you. Many men who are experienced with prostate massage recommend lying on a bed and propping your rear end up with a pillow or the like. Other men prefer to lie on their stomachs. Either way works, although lying on your back makes it easier to stimulate your penis at the same time.

Once you’re prepared, all that’s left to do is insert the toy. Be sure to put lube both around your anal opening and on the toy to ensure it slides in easily. A well designed prostate toy will fit snugly with the head of the toy resting right on your prostate. From there, using the toy is simple – it will move with your body and provide you a great prostate massage effortlessly.